I think, presently, I am having a hard time balancing the care/attention that Randy deserves/needs. Our "private" relationship is going strong, but sometimes he needs my undivided attention, and that's been hard lately.
For me it is remembering that he needs some "him" time too. Just as I need time to myself so does he. I tend to expect him to spend every minute away from work with me and the kids.
For me, it is conversation. I find my mind wandering to things I want to tell him about the kids when he is trying to engage in political or spiritual discussions.
I think, presently, I am having a hard time balancing the care/attention that Randy deserves/needs. Our "private" relationship is going strong, but sometimes he needs my undivided attention, and that's been hard lately.
ReplyDeleteFor me it is remembering that he needs some "him" time too. Just as I need time to myself so does he. I tend to expect him to spend every minute away from work with me and the kids.
ReplyDeleteFor me, it is conversation. I find my mind wandering to things I want to tell him about the kids when he is trying to engage in political or spiritual discussions.
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